Over the past week, the situation has certainly started to worsen. Of course, I have made myself particularly vulnerable to the most powerful of emotions (sadness). A few of the factors that have increased the risk: (1) not playing violin (because I’ve been told not to), (2) not being able to walk around the city (because I’m not in Boston), and (3) not having anyone to be in love with.
My sleep patterns have become very messed up due to very high amounts of dreams, which drain phenomenal amounts of energy. I don’t know what’s up with these dreams. They aren’t really that bad (they aren’t nightmares, per se), but they have required a lot of exertion as well as thinking.
Overall, this melancholy is definitely in the class of loneliness. I feel very distant from most people right now. I can definitely pinpoint many fronts that probably have led to this, although there’s no definite explanation of why. Moods are sometimes caused simply by uncontrollable internal machinations. However, I think that loneliness is partly a side-effect of withdrawal after spending time with people. I am also experiencing a particular low point in self-confidence. Well, that’s nobody’s fault but of course the melancholy instinct is to blame people. Right now, I still have some independently-operating systems, so that side believes that this is just a biological syndrome.
However, the melancholic instinct is to blame people, of course. It is rare indeed these days that anyone starts a conversation with me (I always start them, instead). People also seem to care less and less about the stuff I produce. Well, that could be because I’m getting worse at it. It’s certainly a possibility that I write worse / draw worse now, or that what I produce is too repetitive. I am unable to gauge that, given that I am the one who produces it, and because I certainly feel that I am better now than I was before. But, people have simply ceased to care. All of my older friends seem so far away. I can talk to them, but the part of me that talks is a very small part of me, and a part that is probably dying away now because of inflammation of the other sectors.
It could also be that I have yet to have a conversation where a person says the “right” things to me. I mean, there are easy ways to comfort me, but no one does it (except my stuffed animals). If this state persists for another week, I will definitely run circuit breakers, which means recruiting all of my stuffed animals and reviving all of my characters.
I am also not being very productive this summer, but I feel that my productivity is really dwindling from lack of external encouragement. I seem to really just not care, if there is no one to do this all for. That can also be corrected through the circuit breakers, but I’m a bit disillusioned with that.
In any case, whatever. I’m really caring less and less about this boring life and this boring world. It used to be so amazing and wonderful, but I cease to see what I used to in it all. Why should I bother? I do not exist, if I cannot exist for someone else.
It’s time to let it out, though. I don’t care anymore if it bothers someone or not.
I’m not suicidal at the moment but it’s certainly been an issue in the past, and it could become one in the future (but probably not). Oh well. I don’t have a good note or will yet, though, so you don’t have to worry about that right now. I’m one for extreme melodrama, so death is something that has to be thoroughly planned for :).